Sunday, April 24, 2011

HOLD ON ..GIVE UP???


There comes a time in life, when you have to let go off all the pointless drama and the people who create it..and surround yourself with people who make you laugh so hard that you forget all the bad and focus solely on the good, afterall life is too short to afford time for sorting out the long unending misunderstandings, to give unasked justifications---some people are just not meant to stay in our lives forever, their role is limited to a few happy chapters, and then the lessons they teach you are to stay forever.
Its absolutely fair to leave things unattended, to leave things on time and fate after a few initial days of struggle (only in case of relations!!)..people cant be same forever-the freshness of a few relations soon fades away—with passing time, if one feels there are more burdens ,baggages or nostalgia associated with that name-its best to take a “time off”..its bad!!its difficult!!painful..but it’s the best!!
Life is not just meant to make others happy, spare time for your own self..and those who truly care for you will rather find happiness in your joys..to waste all your time and energy in trying and retrying over a highly entangled thread of relationships is not sensible..even a mother has to leave its dead kid and move on!!keeping a dead body, merely out of affection or in memory of good times of togetherness, makes it rotten..and rotten things ain’t good for health!!
Live freely..do what your heart feels !!Be surrounded with people who make you happy –world is a small place..all who leave may return back in future..and if they don’t they weren’t supposed to be there forever..
Live only for today!!live only for happiness!!dont spoil your present crying about the past or worrying about the future!!
Live it!! love it!!

Will post soon..keep smiling till then and just in case there were any readers to follow on my blog..am extremely sorry could not post for a long long time..but am back again!!

14 comments:

  1. hatz off......gud wrk......th rajput salutes....

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  2. Optimism is d flavor f d season i guess ;-)
    good goin, certainly back :-)

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  3. well that was a well written blog.. People who doesn't deserve the importance should not receive it.. Welcome Back.. The Impact was well made.. Nice Work..

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  4. yes, the need of the hour is to live in present...it's an eye opener more than a praiseworthy act

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  5. well written ishita.. :-).
    People ,may come and people may go, but one go on forever.
    Bury your miseries at the end of the day, and when you wake up in the morning, set your sail towards a fresh beginning, towards a fresh day in life.... with no regrets about the past and no anticipation about the future.
    Just move on!

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  6. i liked it!!!!
    well think dat v all start doing the same thing stated in here!!!! vr do v land....???

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  8. Superlike...!!!!!!
    it is always so easy to cnnct wid ur blogs..
    evrytym u write sumthng nd i feel as if it s bein written to teach me sumthng agn ...:P
    Seriously amazin yaa!!!!!!!..
    keep writtin nd keep teachin me lessons..:P:P

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  9. True, sometimes we need our space, and our time. Running after maintenance of other things while our system slowly wears out and corrodes, not done.

    Nice post.

    Cheers,
    Blasphemous Aesthete

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  10. a glare to our "selfish-gene", hiding its roots somewhere in Darwin's theory of "survival of the fittest". Loosen up the burden and continue to evolve.
    A fact that many of us don't want to accept(at least myself) and hence I consider this post as a "brave" one, bravery of being impolite in a polite manner.

    Its better to accept this fact and get it over with as compared to blaming others for obnoxious reasons.

    Your this quality of stating a bitter truth in packing of sweet words is outstanding Ishita.
    Cheers to this quality, but again I'm one of those who don't want to accept this truth so won't go with the post... ;)

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  11. amazing thoughts...I realized this a few months ago and brought it into application in one go...I guess this has been the best decision I have ever taken in my life :D

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