Dedicated to all my friends

hey people..these are a few lines i wrote for all my friends on friendship day..

but thanks to some problem on my blogger account,i could not post them at that time,so i share them now..

i maynt b a very responsible person wen it comes to making n maintaing frns..bt still m lucky to b surrounded by a few ppl like u..to listen to me..to scold me..to talk wth me..to guide me..to be wth me..
i maynt be very regular in making phone calls..or evn messagin..maybe i am nt d one to meet u very often..bt m grateful to have u..to knw tht u understand me..and also knw d fact tht though m nt in constant tch..bt still i care fer u and thank god to hv u..as a wndrful frn..at any and each stage of my life..
infct quite strange..i maynt evn knw ur fav color.or fav movie.fav hangout place..or ur fav dish..ur close grp of frns,,ur peculiar habits..at tyms i consider u my dearest buddies..bt still am nt aware of sch minute and obvious details abt u..like u dont eat mangoes..or u love sweets..or u like to drive fast..or tht u r damn scared of lizards..or maybe at tyms i donot evn knw wt made u feel spcl dis brthday...or wheter u r well or got urself fractured..at tyms i maynt discuss or knw wheter u r still single..or committed..i maynt knw whetr u passed or flunked in xams..i maybe unaware of small and big things in ur life..bt i knw a fact for sure..tht u alwaz r and will be special fer me..and wen i think of all my good buddies..ur name alwaz pops in my mind..
i hv spent some gr8 moments wth u..though wth tym..our bonds maybe loosened..b still nt broken..and dey will nvr be..
i cherish evry memory..frm schoolll..ryt till college...
when our major concerns wr the class wrks...or discussing d post of class monitors..to house meetins..to chatting and fighting in the recess..tp playing and enjoying d weirdest of weird games..to w8ing at cycle stands..to sharing evrythg frm tiffin..to notes..to assignments,,to thots..to fears..evry part of life..evry ups n downs..
on this frnshp day..i wish to thank u..fer being a part of my life n making it wonderful..u hold a special place..and though we talk daily or rarely..bt ur space is urs..can nt be taken by anyone else..i promise u tht i vl be by ur side wenevr u need me..feel free to ask me...love you loads..
friends rock!!

MASKS..

hey everyone..

this is the first post that i publish "unedited"..coz today i realised the value of originality..with every backspace key u press while typing ,i think u lose it...n manipulate urself..

today i read kindda "personal blog" of someone whom i thot i knew ...bt then while going through the posts..i was confused..i just read 3 entries(coz my practical mind scolded me fer peeping into someone's life)..but still those few lines..described the person in an all together different way..my outlook about d person totally changed...

all throughout we judge people by the way they talk.they language they use,the company they keep,the way they dress..all these factors build up an image of each person..n judging by that image,we decide whom to talk and knowingly or unknowingly we evn classify people,without even talking to them..some are labelled as "dangerous",some as"cheap",some as "selfish","show off","too simple","cunning"..bt today i realised how wrong it can get!

how easily one can mask himself!

n how easily we believe those masks!

a person may look so happy and carefree tht i somehow believe he has nvr been sad..bt the fact is that he is smiling to hold back his tears!

a person is always surrounded by friends..i believe he is lucky to have so many people to call his own..bt fact maybe..tht he is keeping company to ignore his loneliness..to find someone called "true friend"..

someone alwaz makes fun of people in relationships..i believe he can nvr get into one..bt d fact maybe that he is hiding d pain of his own broken heart..

someone maybe alwaz dressed impeccably..perfect as i may think his tastes to be!

bt jst to find him in ragged dresses at his home..

first impressions are so so deceptive sometimes..

and the image formed by those impressions makes us miss out some things..

each one of us uses a mask..at some phase or other..infront of some person or the other..to hide our originality..

but sometimes to discover d beauty behind that mask is a nice feeling..

even if god comes to us wearing a mask of devil..our first impression about it wud not let us give god a chance to prove himself!!but if sometimes we r lucky enough or may i call sensible enough to look beyond the mask..we may find a new person..n discover god!

even if someone keeps a high profile company..maybe she is still simple at heart..

even if someone seems to be very sweet n simple..maybe he is manipulating u..to use u in some way or other..

even if someone talks kiddish all day,maybe her inner self is mature to sort out gravest problems..

try to know the person..not the mask vch he choses to show u..dont judge things by what they appear to be!DONT make images about people without talking to them!!maybe the things turn out to be better than wt u thot..or evn if they are worse..bt still not fake!!

vl post soon.. keep smiling till then!!