Showing posts with label first impression... Show all posts
Showing posts with label first impression... Show all posts

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

"I"


i-a letter among 26 alphabets-'I', a word among others in the dictionary.--"I", an individual among the crowd of the world.
i, so meek, so small, unnoticable-yet important and one of its kind.
for others i maybe just someone-but for a few people, i maybe irreplacable.
for others, i maybe just an acquaintance to talk about, but for a few, i am a support system to 'talk to'.
the world is full of people-each with his own story called life-own feelings-own dreams-own aspirations-own thoughts-hopes and challenges-ups and downs---yet what we see is just what we want to see,what our perspective makes us see.
we donot see the individuality of each "i", but we characterise them by our own rules.
if we see a poor bus conductor shouting, we will conclude he is short tempered..what if he is irritated because his poor kid is unwell and he can not afford medicines.
if we see a snob teenager, we conclude she has unasked attitude..what if she lost her family ages ago, and the hardships made her what she is.
if we see a rich spoilt brat, we conclude he has not been brought up well..what if he never got his busy parent's attention and devised his ways to keep himself busy.
if we meet a friend's sister, for the first time,we meet her as a friend's sister, and not as an individual she is.
the world is full of people, its upto you to call it a crowd, or look at it as a collection of people.
to call it a crowd gives you a generalised view, but a collection of people makes you treat each one as a living individual- to consider the human part of their life-to treat them accordingly- to judge them individually.

at this very moment, when you are forming an opinion about me, by reading my blog, i maybe doing something that totally contradicts your opinion.
at this very moment,when i am watching Anushka perfrom on TV and getting awed by her glamourous life,fan following..she maybe lazing around in her comfortable bed hoping to get some personal space.
at this very moment, when Ambani could be hurrying to avoid a minutes delay for a multi crore deal, someone could be spending hours under the sun, to look for a job to earn his bread and butter.
while on a same traffic signal, a gentleman in mercedes could be blaming the poor traffic system that makes him struck on road in his AC car..a poor beggar on the same road could be earning his days meal due to traffic.
on the railway platform, a poor kid maybe excited about his first journey outside his village, even if it meant 15 hours in a general compartment..for another gentleman,same 15 hours in AC coach maybe a nightmare as his travel agent couldnot manage flight tickets.
its the same day for everyone- same life- same 24 hours that we all get-yet we make different stories.
each "i" has a life, a story that maybe unnoticed by you, but important for him.
you have your story too, which is already at a better phase than many others, and you have your 24 hours, to decide the important characters in your story, to play the different roles of your story, and to shape the end of your story.
decide the value of "I",the letter that helps in formation of many words."I", the word that helps in formation of many sentences. and"I" the individual, me, that makes an integral part of many stories of the world.
Value each "I"!!

Friday, May 21, 2010

first impression...

Hie..everyone..thts me..well new to the world of blogging..so lemme tell you before reading further...who am i?what am i?..and why i am here??
Well..to start with..i am you...exactly!!don't get me wrong here..i am a 20 yrs old college gal..born in a middle class Indian family..brought up with good morals..trying to develop an understanding of the world..i am just like any average gal..nothing extraordinary..nothing special about me..yet there is something i feel worth living for..got loads of friends..who keep making me feel important..
one day i m a complete loser..and d very next day..a princess!..no false claims of being overly pretty..nor am i very smart..nt very intelligent..neither is my life very happening..but yet its interesting enough..i try to look at the world frm my eyes..and thts wt i am here for....
my world..lemme clarify..is not a big place either..jst revolves around a few ppl called friends..and my family..
friends-an integral part of me..my strength..my weakness..through them i learn about life..about its complications..abt its simplicity..i just feel it!!enjoy it!! and thts wt i am here for..to share the joys of an average life with average ppl..
my life revolves around my family..small things like a fight with a friend..like scolding frm mom..like poor results..like a friend"s ignorance..like a new crush..dey all mean to me..and thts all wt i intend to blog about!
i donot intend to use heavy words nor complicated vocabulary..coz frankly thts not my cup of tea.. i donot promise to tell you any great "mills and boon" love story..nor a paulo coelho's inspiritional one..coz frankly dere is no hero yet..nor have i achieved something worth being an inspirition..(though both these will definitely be achieved..soon..very soon..)yet by reading me ..you will feel connected..coz i live your life..feel the life of an average person..its entanglements..its so called complications..its simplicity!my different modes..my different moods..
so hope u all keep connecting to me!!
will catch up with you soon..to unfold a new chapter..of life..of thoughts..keep smiling till then!!