For a minute , just close your eyes and think of all the relations you have in life----what flashes to your mind is family, favorite relatives, boy/girlfriends, few best friends..i believe these are the few handful of people we tag as “important”
In this post I do not talk about these important people, coz we already know their value. to be honest these are the people who hold the power to make us happy and to leave us crying…(sometimes I really feel sorry for the people who after breakup, don’t even talk to their ex..i mean-once you shared each and everything..and today, don’t even want to face each other..! or even the best friends.. who after a few misunderstandings, can never get the lost relationship or atleast the same bonding as before!!)
No---here I talk about the unnoticed, un acknowledged, infact not so important relations, we hardly chose for ourselves..These are the people who do not expect anything from you-yet unexpectedly make you happy, they do not hold any special place in your lives, their absence may not even be noticed, yet their presence makes you comfortable.
Am sure most of you don’t get what I am saying, and have already termed me as insane!!
Do you have any “hi-hello” friends? few ppl whom you hardly ever talked to, yet whenever you meet them-whatever your mood maybe-you smile at each other. thats your smile friend! who without your knowledge made u happy in all your moods.
Or do u have any fruit-vendor who suggests you to take banana instead of mangoes, coz he believes they are better. or the shopkeeper, who tells you which colour suits you better. Or even a bus driver-who hardly even knows your name, but knows the stop from where you board the bus, and even waits for you, if u are running late.
Or even a very old buddy, meeting after long time-who asks your whereabouts! he offcourse is not affected by you..but is still concerned..or a frn, whom you hardly ever thought of comes up to u and asks if you are all right coz he had been noticing your missing smile, broken leg or something of that sorts!
Do you have any special topics, which can be discussed with special ppl only..like I had a frn, with whom I talked only and only about a particular teacher, another frn with whom I talked only in the assembly, another person who read all my blogs regularly,and commented upon them..they are hardly my frns, yet they are important.
There are so many such ppl, ”ajeeb rishtey!!” strange bonds!!
Just for one day, think beyond the imp ppl , and concentrate on these ppl, who touch your lives, spare even a minute out of their own busy life and affect you!!
You will find loads of such ppl, acknowledge them!!And look at the smiles you get from them!! Suddenly your handful of imp ppl list will increase drastically!!
never take someone for granted
hold every person close to your heart
coz later you might realise
that you lost a diamond,
while you were busy collecting stones!!!
p.s.—it ws just the effect of this lovely song I heard,,I do not think this post made much sense. do lemme knw if it did:-P..
will post soon!!keep smiling till then!!
