Though this time i myself am not sure tht wt i come up with will be appreciated or agreed upon by anyone..because it is something which happens with all of us!each one of us!a part of us all about which i think hardly anyone notices!
What if one fine day..when i wake up..i donot have my wallet..i would go to my parents and ask for money..simple!But imagine..what if they refuse??? i would be frustrated for a few minutes..bt anyways 1 day..i can mange without it...bt what if the situation continues for a month!!
hard to imagine??right???2 months without spending a penny??seems impossible..atleast to me!!
do we really realise the value of money???
ofcourse yes!
when i go shopping i always see the price tag..i spend merely on basic necessities-food..clothes..being in touch with frns..and so on..all my spending is justified!
but behold!is it??
i myself dont knw what i am talkig about..whether there is any soluution to it..or even if it is a problem at all??
but think about it-i go to canteen saying tht i am giving a treat today..but who am i to be giving a treat-if its not my money at all!unless offcourse i earn it.but as is the case with most of us..we donot earn..its our parents who work hard..but delightfully give us our "pocket money" which we spend soo lavishly!
but do we really have the right to be so extravagant?
is it not cheating? To spend hard earned money so freely..believing it to be our own!
whom am i fooling???-when i give treats for no reason at all,when i go shopping jst fer a mood refreshment..when i get a new phone jst fer the charm of it..when i buy a pair of jeans jst to add to my wardrobe..when i dine at pizza hut jst coz i was in mood of it..when i talk endlessly on phone without bothering about balance..when i freely forward msgs as it costs merely 10 paise,,when i prefer my bike ovr pooled vehicles wihout thinking abt petrol..when i give expensive gifts,when i watch same movie in hall thrice jst fer the fun of it..when i shamelessly give the traffic fine out of carelessness..when i buy the tickets of cricket match in black almost double the price!
when i shamelessly and rightfully ask for pocket money!!!
i knw its awkward of me to think in this directin..bt still are we really acting responsibly?
imagine your frn asks you fer some money..though u have to curtail few of your own desirses bt still out of love ..u give him a share of ur pocket money ..jst to find him partying with it the next day!
how does it feel?
Exactly this our parents go through ..silently!
its not our right to be soo over spending..its not about being miser nor cool!!
what you are spending is not your own!its jst someone else hardwork given silently to you..as a silent..bt undeserved gift...
most of us wud come up with an excuse "papa k raaz me enjoy kar lo,fir to kamana hi hai""
why..if its earned by ur father-its money..when earned by u..it becomes-valuable money!
so for next few days..evn if u take out a penny to spend..think twice..if its really worth it..if its needed to spend someone else"s money..ur parents hard earned money...
m sure tht will help us all to control and manage our wallets..in a respectable manner where we realise the value of each penny...
as i already said..this post is about us all..bt still even if u dont agree with wt i say..thts nt because i am wrong..but maybe because u dont actually wish to feel its rightfulness! :-)
will post soon...keep smiling till then..
